Emotional displacement
One equally important concept, namely “emotional displacement “*, I propose to examine in more detail.
Example 1.
One of the emotions accompanying the emotional shift is love. In fact, at the initial stage love is not yet a feeling, but a complex emotion of the second level (for more information, see the website of the project Working with Emotions from the Center for the Study of Personality.
A woman who experiences the emotion of love (falling in love) tends to see only the positive aspects of her partner. For example, she may admire (complex emotion of the second level) his attractiveness and intelligence, but ignore his anger (complex emotion of the second level) towards the waiter who carries the menu for a long time. But such an emotional reaction can speak not only about the partner’s emotional control problems, but also about his aggressiveness, which, later, can affect his attitude to the woman.
The woman will experience the emotion of interest in relation to the man, joy in connection with his attention (complex emotions of the second level), behind which she will not be able to adequately assess the partner. The emotional shift will allow her to see only what she would like to see. In other words, her positive emotions will overshadow the negative.
Example 2.
Example 3.
Emotional displacement must be diagnosed at early stages and prevented from becoming entrenched in the Personality Structure. It is for this purpose that CSP (Center for the Study of Personality) has developed special techniques for three-dimensional diagnosis and correction of emotional disorders. Thus, you will be able to avoid potentially dangerous reactions and, at the same time, keep your Emotional sphere in the psychological norm.
Irina Lukiyanchuk psychologist on working with emotions
Edited by Alisa Anisimova